This morning I woke up thinking of my ex fiancee. As the warm waters of my morning shower washed over me, I contemplated our transgressions and what was the difference between the happy relationship I have now, and the tumultuous one we had together. Zoosk Don't get me wrong, she's a great woman, and we shared the best of times and the worst of times. In the end, things mattered so much, and cut so deep, because we loved so much.
In the process of "finding
love," we must learn to love and be loved. There are different types of
love obviously, like that of a parent or friend. Often, it's the ones we hold
above all others that our "love" neglects the most due to our
insecurities, fear, and inability to communicate effectively.
When my relationship ended, I took
the time to reflect on my own actions and feelings. In the heat of the moment,
we may say things we regret. I certainly did, yet, at the time I felt justified
in my comments. Through careful and objective reflection, I came to understand
that things Hookup
Sites bothered me in a way with her, more than anyone else because
I cared so deeply.
Not saying our union was perfect,
nor ultimately that it would work, but I think we both put ourselves through a
lot of personal grief because we knew that we weren't meant for each other,
even though we loved each other greatly. That's what hurt so much. To look into
someone's eyes and love deeply, yet feel so detached is a very painful
experience to endure.
That being said, and finding wisdom
in all things, there are lessons to learn from deep painful love. I never look
back with regret, because we cannot change yesterday. We've set each other free
to find the true happiness we were destined to live, which is the greatest act
of love and kindness two people can give. In honor of that experience, Pick-Me
Girl I try to live my life now by the lessons learned by it that
has taught me more about myself and what will truly make me happy in life.
Sometimes love is not meant to last
forever, and your partner isn't your possession. During your break up remember
to criticize yourself first. It takes two to tango. It also takes two to argue.
Remind yourself that it is alright not to be the same, and that people do grow
apart. Stop comparing yourself to them and their ideals. Think about your happiness.
Lastly, walk away re-defining what
it is that you truly want. Strip away all the good things from the bad and
focus on those things you want in a partner. Recognize those things in people
you don't like, or that rile you and irritate you and avoid them. Look for a
partner who possesses those traits that will strengthen your bonds, instead of
driving wedges between the happiness in your mind, and the reality you love.
People say and do things because
love makes them care so deeply that they almost become intoxicated and
delirious by it. And that isn't a pleasant sight. There are times when love is
supposed to hurt. It pulls on your tenterhooks because it touches each of us so
deeply and completely. Learn from those feelings so when you fall in love
again, you can love with open arms and heart, and a mind free from those
insidious thoughts that sabotage your happiness.
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